How to Be an Effective Ally to Transgender and Non-Binary People

As we approach the end of 2023, a year marked by a surge in transphobia, the focus shifts to making 2024 a more supportive year for LGBTQ+ individuals. This period has been challenging, with instances like Rishi Sunak's controversial remarks on misgendering, proposed legislation impacting trans women in the UK, a wave of anti-trans and anti-LGBTQ+ laws in the US, and an uptick in transphobic hate crimes. Now more than ever, the transgender and non-binary community requires strong and vocal support from their cisgender allies.

Despite these adversities, the year also witnessed a rise in allyship and resistance within the trans community. Key events and developments included the large turnout at London’s Trans+ Pride event, increased representation of trans artists, vocal support from celebrities like Dolly Parton, and the successful overturning of numerous discriminatory laws, thanks to dedicated activism.

In light of these challenges and advancements, it's crucial to reinforce and expand upon this growing allyship. Fox Fisher and Owl (Ugla Stefanía Kristjönudóttir Jónsdóttir) offer five essential ways to effectively support transgender and non-binary individuals:

1. Check in on Their Well-being: Given the frequent challenges like transphobia and misgendering, it's important to regularly check on the mental health of trans and non-binary acquaintances, ensuring they don't feel isolated or overwhelmed.

2. Confront Everyday Transphobia: Allies should use their voices to address common transphobic behaviors, such as misgendering or using a person's dead name. The goal is to initiate conversations that could enlighten others about trans perspectives, though caution is advised in potentially unsafe situations.

3. Respect Pronouns: Acknowledging and using correct pronouns is fundamental to allyship. Mistakes can happen, but the key is to apologize and strive to do better. Sharing your own pronouns can also create a more inclusive environment.

4. Support and Donate: Contributing time or resources to trans charities or individual transition fundraisers can significantly help the community, especially considering the high poverty rates among trans adults.

5. Be Actively and Visibly Supportive: On social media and in personal interactions, openly advocating for trans rights, sharing relevant articles, and engaging in discussions about trans issues can alleviate the burden on transgender individuals to constantly defend and explain their existence.

For those seeking additional guidance or resources, organizations like Just Like Us and The Trevor Project offer invaluable support for young trans individuals and their allies. These steps not only affirm the dignity and rights of transgender and non-binary people but also foster a more inclusive and understanding society.